Millennial Caribbean Mom

Hello everyone, and welcome back to my blog! I know it’s been a while, but today I’m excited to share the things I bought for my daughter before her arrival, along with helpful tips and recommendations for new moms navigating this beautiful journey. Baby Essentials Before Arrival Bath & Hygiene Baby bath for bath time Grooming kit & aspirator Baby shampoo & baby lotion Sudocrem or Destin cream (to prevent rashes) Finger brush/manicure set Clothing & Bedding Clothes (0-3 months, 3-6 months, 6-9 months) Sleepers Crib sheets & bumper Heavy blankets Receiving blankets Baby caps Feeding Breast pump (optional) Bottles in various sizes + nipples Pacifiers or soothers Infant feeding bowl & spoon Formula (Infamil recommended by nurses) Burp cloth Diapers & Wipes Pampers newborn (buy 2 packs; babies grow fast!) Size 1 & 2 diapers in bulk Wipes (Huggies are affordable) Mobility & Comfort Stroller...

Devastation Struck  On October 28, 2025 , Jamaica experienced the most devastating Hurricane known as Melissa . As a teenager, I experienced Ivan but I was now ready to face a new Category 5 contender known as Melissa. Her only counterpart I knew about was " Wild Gilbert " which crippled the island in 1988.  When I heard that it would severely impact the Western part of the island , I went on an online prayer vigil on October 27, 2025 and I repented on behalf of my household. Melissa visited my home at approximately 1:30 pm in the afternoon on October 28 in all her rage and fury. She tried to take the awnings on the verandah but my family and I wrestled with her to lose her hold. By the grace of God when she passed, we escaped with only a pear tree uprooted and 1 of the awnings falling off which we were able to secure. There was a bit of water that came in one of the rooms but to God be the glory, everything else was in tact. It will be an experience that my daughter and I...

Some days just stay with you forever, and this was definitely one of them. My daughter and I had the amazing opportunity to explore Logos Hope , the world’s largest floating book fair , and it was an awesome adventure.  From the moment we entered the premises, we were filled with excitement. Everywhere we turned, there were books: books full of adventure, knowledge, and stories waiting to inspire us. Walking through the ship felt like stepping into a library the size of a small city , floating on the sea. The best part? Experiencing it all with my daughter. Watching her discover new stories and treasures reminded me how important it is to make memories while nurturing a love for reading and learning . Moments like these are priceless. We also liked the fact that there were many Faith based books to choose from.  Logos Hope is more than just a bookstore on the water. It’s a place that spreads hope and knowledge to communities around the world through volunteering, educatio...

I’m learning that motherhood isn’t always easy. Some days are long and exhausting, filled with endless tasks and sleepless nights that test your patience. There are moments when you feel completely overwhelmed, and it’s okay to admit that. The weight of responsibility can feel heavy and the challenges can seem never ending. But in the middle of it all, God reminds me of one unchanging truth: children are a blessing from the Lord (Psalm 127:3). Every little smile, every laugh, even the lessons learned through tears are gifts meant to enrich our lives and shape our hearts. When the days feel long and my energy is low, I try to pause and reflect: God entrusted me with this precious life because He believes in my strength and love. My child isn’t just my responsibility, she's my joy, my purpose, and a constant reminder of God’s goodness. So whether it’s a day filled with chaos or quiet moments of connection, I hold on to this truth. Motherhood may be challenging, but it is also a ...

  I am currently in a season of self discovery and self care. I often times tend to feel burn out and frustrated and then the Lord had to remind me that it is important for me to take care of my body.  Our bodies are God's temple and so we must take care of it. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 states that,  " Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body." In this new year, I am paying it forward by taking care of myself in every way. I am focusing on my Mental, Spiritual and Physical health .  I am learning that if I don't love myself then I cannot show love and be my brother's keeper.  Here are some ways that you can take of your Mental and Spiritual Health: You can read the Word daily and remind yourself about who God says you are  You can pray to God daily and include Him in all areas of your life and before you make har...

  As a Christian mom, one of the things you are mandated to do is to pray for your children. Prayer is a powerful way to partner with God to help you to raise your children. Praying for all areas of their lives is very important. You may be wondering how exactly can you pray for your children.  In this blog post, we'll explore practical ways Christian moms can pray for their children, along with some specific prayers that can help you feel connected to God and confident in your role as a mother. Why Is Praying for Your Children Important? Before we dive into the "how," it's important to understand why prayer matters. Prayer is more than just words we say to God. It is a way to communicate with Him, trust in His will, and seek His help. For Christian moms, praying for your children is an act of love and it deepens our trust in God who is the author and finisher of our faith. When you pray for your children, you're asking God to watch over them, guide them, and...

  Some people will never understand your story. However, that's okay. Our validation doesn't come from man but God. He is the author and finisher of our faith.  I know that I have not been on here for quite awhile for I am back to share with you. I was living in another city for almost 2 years raising my daughter who will be 7 years old.  That's right, I now have a 7 year old child.  It has not been an easy journey. Motherhood is not as simple as it looks. It is a sacrifice. God has been good and he never fails. I have been amazed at the wonderful things that my daughter has been doing and her  passion for life.  There are days when I felt like giving up doing it by myself but I always remember that  God didn't bring me this far to leave me.  For all single mothers, continue to trust God and know that He will never leave you or forsake you.

  My birthday came and went. I was working on that day since it was a work day. I didn't have anything planned out but I felt bittersweet. I was at a milestone age and felt like I didn't achieve all my goals. I had to reassure myself that all things are working for my good and everything works on God's timing and not man's.  My daughter made me a handmade birthday card which was very cute and she wished me happy birthday.  I was thankful for another year and I didn't want to over do it by spending unnecessarily. However on the weekend on International Women's Day March 8,I felt like a child again by visiting the circus [The Suarez Brothers Circus] with my daughter. It was actually by first time going to the circus here in Jamaica as I missed it when I was a child. This reminds me that as a parent I get to re-live my childhood days with my daughter.  The activities were very fun and entertaining and we enjoyed ourselves. You can check out the video to see the sni...

  God has been faithful. We are in a new year. We have overcome the worst and are ready to prepare for a new season.  Keep focusing on the new things that are coming to you. Keep hopeful knowing that God is the same as yesterday, today and forevermore. He will make a way for you where there seems to be no way. Continue to trust as your Provider, Way Maker, Miracle Worker, Promiser Keeper. He won't fail you. Be encouraged and don't keep remembering the past but know that He is doing a new thing according to Isaiah 43:19 - Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.